Parents' relationship and sex education questions answered

• Because it’s easier and safeguarding from an early age is essential.
• Young children are fabulous, as all parents know they ask loads of questions, not least of all about their bodies and your body!
• If they are asking questions they deserve answers.
• Ask yourself how would you like your children to learn about their bodies, their relationships and how babies are made?

• Not all Parents/Carers feel confident or knowledgeable, scared they may say too much or too little plus virtually all Parents think it is will be covered at School at some point.
• Not all Teachers feel adequately trained and confident to deliver a rapidly changing subject that may compromise their knowledge and question their values.
• Relationship & sex education as a subject became statutory in ALL Schools from September 2020 and was updated in July 2025. We are asked into Schools to support Staff,  Parents and the children, we all need to work together to keep children safe.

• Nothing takes away innocence quicker then sexual abuse.
• Knowledge about their bodies won’t stop them wanting to fly kites, go sledging or make sand castles.
• When body science is discussed they just add it to their knowledge bank, it is often us as adults that have the concerns.
• The world is changing and protecting our children with age appropriate information about risk is vital.

• It is really important that children know the correct scientific names for their genitals along with other parts of their bodies.
• In the event of them ever being inappropriately touched they have the vocabulary to give exact information.
• For example, “they touched my Minnie/tuppence/flower” is very vague as opposed to “they touched my vagina”.
• Child abusers prefer uneducated children – those who don’t have the words and knowledge of what’s right and wrong.
• Research shows that an educated child is three times more likely to speak out if they are subjected to abuse.

• When today’s adults were at School the world was a very different place, no mobile phones with cameras, no sexting, no easy available access to pornography or strangers via the Internet.
• It is imperative we educate children to be aware of the risks, so they know to come to trusted adults with their questions about their bodies, relationships and sex etc. rather than the internet.

At BigTalk Education we work with schools and families with a wide range of faiths. We give children and young people, age appropriate factual information, delivered in a calm and gentle way. Unfortunately, abusers have no regard or respect for religion or family beliefs, so it is important that all children are given this type of education. With the ease of access to unreliable sources of information on every computer and smart phone, it is important that children know that they can speak to their trusted adults about all topics. Because if we do not educate them, they will look for the information in places (and from people) that are not reliable sources and that could put them at risk. Please have a read through our information on how our work complements school and family values on our Faith School page and come along to our parents session to discuss any specific concerns with our team.

• BigTalk Education have published a book Bodies, Babies and Bellybuttons for use with four year olds and upwards, also suitable for special educational needs pupils and those on the Autism spectrum. View our Resources page for more information.